I often think about life and observe the things that involves in life. Life will always have two things, just like a coin has two faces. This life comes up with two aspects, either Live it or Die, and it comes with two wheels of cart - man and woman. For every person there are two things in life, either to live it to the fullest or make it complex to live. Every action in your life will bring either happiness in your life or unhappiness, depending upon the opportunities you have in life and how you react to it. Life will give you so many opportunities but it is you, who will say either yes or no. When you say yes, then there will be challenges while making these opportunities turn into success. Life is full of challenges and you should be always ready for that, and you must try hard. It is your call if you want to accept challenge or you want to turn down.
"To succeed in life, you need two things: ignorance and confidence" - Mark Twin.
Every human being want to live a successful life but it depends upon how they react to challenges or opportunities they have. Your actions will decide whether you will be a successful person or you will have failure(s) in life. How you serve challenges decide whether you win or you lose. But, again life is very crazy it will give you two more situations to experience it. If you will win then it is you who will decide to keep on celebrating your win or you will keep on doing hard work to get many more success in life.
It is very nicely said by Sir A.P.J Abdul Kalam - "Don’t take rest after your first victory because if you fail in second, more lips are waiting to say that your first victory was just luck."
But, interesting part about life is when you fail to complete challenge then situation will tell you two things again, either give it up or give it a try to win back. You should always keep on trying even after repetitive failures rather than just giving up because, it may bring success in your life, and you will completely lose challenge when you just give it up. Every Problem has two solutions either to run away or to participate. If you participate, even after series of failures, you will either survive at last or you will deteriorate. It is your call in life to choose any one of the ways in life.
"Repeated failures are finger posts on the road to achievement" - C. S. Lewis
You have two things in your life 'to be happy' or 'to be sad', and it is upto you to decide what to choose. In your life two things will always define your life, 'your patience when you have nothing' and 'your attitude when you have everything'. Life could be worse or could be better, it is upto you, to make it happen with two things, by choosing a bitter path or a better path. Every person has a choice to become optimistic or pessimistic. Your positivity will bring happiness in your life because you can always use it for every challenge you face, to bring success. If you allow negative thinking to come in your mind, then there will be a loop of failures in your life. Negative thinking wil let you, give up always in your life.
"Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up" -Thomas Alva Edison
Two things in your personal , professional or social life is to find an excuse or to find a way. If you find an excuse, you will never achieve your goal and if you find a way, you will have a goal in your basket. To achieve a goal you must work on your dream to fulfil your dreams, rather than just keeping in mind and doing nothing for that. Your goals are key for your happiness and your optimistic behaviour is solution for every obstacle in your life.
You will always have two options, to choose friends, to collect memories, to talk with someone, to react on something - either it is good or bad.
Life always comes up with two things, birth and death and in between these two constant parts of life you always have two things which will design your life.
If you observe two things about a life do post here in a comment and share with me.
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| Snake & Ladder |
We all know a game "Snake and Ladder". Our childhood favorite game. But very few people can correlate the reason for making this game. What this game teach us about is similar to our daily life. I think most of the people have never thought of learning from this game. It teaches us everything about life in our childhood itself which relate to the thought process of every set of people in the pursuit of life.
There are three different kinds of people used to play the game of life.
1. Some people (A) think about winning the game and concentrate over only on the final destination on board. These are people very positive & optimistic in their life and are perfect examples for Positivity.
2. Some people (B) reaches their destination with a lot of ups and downs but they fight and win the game though it took some time. This is the perfect examples of Never Give Up quality of such a person.
3. Some people (C) always afraid of obstacles(snake) in a game which brings them down. Their all concentrations are upon these obstacles and they fail to achieve their goal. These people always have failure ratio more than success.
People who think to win this game first always think positively in life. On the game board, they always see for ladders to reach the final destination. They always think about their goal. This positivity, thinking and faith towards their thinking helps them to win the game first. They are always on the top of anyone else in the game. The reason behind this is, they never think about an obstacle(snake) on board and they treat their life in the same way and achieve success.
People who win after so many ups and downs think about both an obstacle and a way to reach the final destination. In the game board, they always see both snakes and ladders. At the same time, they pay attention to snake and ladder and try to find a way to get success. These people come down because of an obstacle they think about and go up because of the way they find it out to overcome the obstacle. These people reach their goal slowly with a lot of issues, failures but success is for sure in their life.
The worst scenario is about the people who always think of failure even before they start a game. These people can only see their an obstacle and not a way to overcome the obstacle or just cannot find a way to reach the last destination in their life. On the game board, these people always think about what if I come in front of the snake(obstacle), what if I go down. The same thinking happens to them even in their daily life. They give up before they start playing. Even in life, these people focus on the negative side of anything before working on it.
Life is like the snake and ladder game. The choice is yours, what you want and what not. If you want success then be a person in category A and B or else you will always lie in as a person belongs to category C who are always prone to failures.
Stay tune to the channel of "positivity" & be an "optimistic" person to achieve the best !! Stay blessed !!
